It's the Little Things about Sharing Her...

We haven’t invested much time in organizing our BLOG or dressing it up to look nice. So far we’ve recounted a few of our experiences in fair detail, and we will continue to do that (if we’re lucky enough to have some more hot encounters). But I also want to share some of the thoughts and feelings behind these sharing, swinging, and cuckold experiences. Perhaps some of this will prompt some comments or emails that will get a real dialogue going.

I found myself reflecting recently on some of the simpler sexy things that Kim and I have experienced in these last few months. For instance, last weekend we had a pretty mellow night at our favorite lifestyle club. By that I mean, there was no fucking and not even any oral sex. However, my lady didn’t disappoint. She looked amazing in an understated but incredibly hot outfit. She felt great about herself and that prompted a really fun outgoing and flirtatious attitude. We were both pretty horny, but alas the good social time won out over the hot sex.

However, she still drove me crazy and it’s been hard to shake some of the images from my head. I’m sure some of you agree, watching your lady flirt and tease and make out with another man is almost as hot as seeing her have sex. She spent a lot of the time outside on the patio hanging out with some friends, among whom are a couple that we’ve played with a bit over the last few months. We are both very comfortable around them; we all know and respect each other’s “rules” and there’s a healthy attraction. Both the woman and the man are really into Kim, so I love to see their reactions to her sexy outfits There is always a lot of flirting, even if we don’t end up getting naked or whatever.

The last time we saw them at the club we had a pretty hot time…Kim sucked a lot of cock and enjoyed a lot of attention from both of them. To be frank, she really enjoys Bill’s cock. He’s a big guy and his cock is…proportional shall we say. They haven’t had sex yet, but that’s more because of Bill and Rita’s rules than ours. I have enjoyed hearing Kim talk about his cock, tease me with various little stories, since the first time we played a little with them.

Last Saturday night, we sat around drinking together and I made sure Kim was very comfortable and relaxed and well aware she could play as much as she liked. As I said, we were having so much fun talking and drinking that we never even got a chance to get a room. But in those few hours of chit chat and flirting I saw my lady completely relaxed and comfortable and empowered in her sexuality. She sat with Bill most of the night. He just adores her and since his wife also adores Kim and is totally comfortable, his hands and lips and eyes are always on my girl. They kissed several times and did the usual amount of flirting. Since my lady has gotten so comfortable though, I found her even more irresistible as she pushed the envelope with Bill in public right in front of me.

Is it just me, or is seeing your lady’s hand on another man’s bulge or his naked cock just about the hottest thing in the universe? Well, there she sat…across the table from me with her hand comfortable on his big bulge. Others could see and enjoy, but she was performing for me and loving every minute. They would lean in and talk intimately some, kiss a little, and her eyes would always find me to see if I noticed and if I was enjoying! I noticed and I WAS definitely enjoying. She has this naughty smile...and those eyes just dance when she’s teasing me like that. Her hand stroking back and forth on that big cock…mouthing to me about how hard Bill is! God, I was in heaven.

This went on for several hours. I took care of her drink and we did some kissing and talking as well. She was telling me the things they were talking about, which was making me even hotter. They were talking about what he wanted to do with her…how much he had enjoyed the last time we were together. He told her that he really wanted to cum in her mouth…and she said, “OK, that can easily be arranged!” He asked if I minded that he was so into her…that she was so into his cock…whether I minded her sucking him or would mind if he fucked her. She told him that I loved seeing her with him and would love to see him fuck her. I loved that she was telling me all this, and I loved thinking after of how hard and hot she must have been making him with this discussion…I mean, it’s a perfect set up for any red blooded man…a hot wife who not only wants to suck and fuck but also has a husband who encourages it!

She loves the attention and the sexual tension that comes with our play time with friends at the club or just about anytime we play. She gives me a huge gift by indulging and sharing my fantasy as we do. But I can also tell she’s enjoying her relatively newfound freedom. The highlight for her almost always involves knowing how hard she made the other guy. And here I was watching her enjoy this big hard cock…while she stared at me and smiled and knew she was driving me nuts.

We will see Bill and Rita again soon at the club. God knows, Kim is hungry to give him a good blowjob. Next time we get ready I’ll get to see my lady dressing with him in mind. He prefers those 38DD’s of her braless, so I’m hoping she shows them off special for him next time. And there again…it’s the anticipation that excites me so much. My amazing lady brings out desires and fantasies I never knew I had…and perhaps best of all, she understands me and celebrates this amazing lifestyle we share. I can’t wait til next time…there will be much more to write.

Sometimes it really is about the little things! The reason I wanted to write this little blog entry is because it’s just about how erotic some of the smaller, simpler aspects of this fantasy and this lifestyle really are. That night, she never got fucked, never gave a blowjob, but my god, did she ever drive me crazy?! And I think that made us both crazy…and THAT is what it’s all about.

Chapter 3 - She Gets Fucked Again and We Both Love It

Our journey has continued. We put a profile on our first real “swingers” site; and it immediately got results. Adding her picture always helps gather interest! We always make it clear that this is about HER. We are open to meeting couples and have enjoyed quite a bit of couples play at our favorite lifestyle club. However, it can be an issue if a couple is looking for a man who will participate with them. My lady has made it clear that she is not comfortable with me playing with another woman, and I have every intention of respecting her wishes in that regard. Besides, my thrill really comes from seeing her pleasured, so it’s easy to play by her rules! One couple attracted our attention pretty quickly. They contacted us and I enjoyed a nice chat online with the woman. We connected immediately…perhaps because we were both good communicators and enthusiastic about getting to know each other.

They are a local couple…fairly experienced in playing with other couples and singles. She is outgoing and interested in both men and women. They obviously have a great sex life. She has nothing but good things to say about her man as a lover; and she enjoys the idea of sharing him. She volunteered early in our communication that she has never really seen her man in a MFM, and the idea of seeing him have both a man and a woman sucking his cock really got her hot. We talked in detail about her guy…and it was really unique to hear the woman bragging about her man’s cock and ability. She said he was really thick…and the pictures confirmed he had a great cock. It didn’t seem like my wife was very focused on that aspect..she always says it’s not about the other guy’s cock really, but I know it really intrigued me to know that he had a big cock and knew how to use it!

We went through a bit of a process of setting expectations and rules, but the communication was easy and encouraging. We were both honest and direct. I told her exactly what to expect from us…namely, a beautiful sexy mature woman who loves sex and a conservative good looking and masculine guy who loves sharing his wife. But I also made it clear that we are looking for a couple who doesn’t require me to play with the lady. She was immediately fine with that…quickly volunteering that her man is enough for her. She is also actively bisexual, so I told her that my lady wasn’t really bi…very focused on men…but she is open to some attention from a lady who takes the lead. This approach to disclosure worked very well…she appreciated the honesty and having the background information that would help make our time together work well.

Soon, she talked with her husband, shared some pictures of my beautiful lady, and replied to me confirming their interest. We were quickly talking of a date on the calendar that worked for our first meeting. She told me that they’d like to have a phone call with my girl to confirm that we are who we say we are…we gave them her phone number and a 15 minute phone call served to relax them and build our enthusiasm as well. We began to talk of planning the specifics of a first meeting…some travel and work schedules to juggle, but we started planning on a hotel meet one evening after work. It was a bit tough to schedule around my work travel and such, but we picked a date to meet them…figuring we’d meet in a hotel bar and have a few hours to play if there was chemistry there.

I got the opportunity to chat online one-on-one with the guy, we’ll call him Alex. He was great…direct, talkative, and also really understood what we were looking for. I got the sense that they had both enjoyed playing with cuckold guys and their wives before. Later I showed the chat to my wife…an interesting feeling in itself. She read how we had chatted in detail about things like me guiding his cock into her, him giving me a cum facial, how we wanted to see both of us sucking his cock. And she also saw how I had told him what a great cock he had. A part of me always gets a bit nervous when I expose my fantasies to her. I suppose it’s silly because she really understands my fantasies. She has been nothing but supportive…and hot as hell throughout this whole exploration. She immediately told me the chat was really hot…she liked all of it. And there was nothing new there…but this guy just knew how to pull out my cuckold fantasies; there was no hiding that with my girl.

Well, we ended up having to postpone our first meeting due to travel and personal conflicts, but I guess fate was at work. Just after my girl and I had been discussing whether we could meet them one afternoon during the day…I got a text message inviting us to join them at a hotel the next afternoon. We laughed about the coincidence and basically accepted immediately. Again, my mind raced with the anticipation. I knew that we had a good general connection with this couple. I was confident that it would work and we would hit it off. But it’s so new to us…just showing up in a hotel room and jumping into bed. So, as the day went on and our date grew near…we both got a little nervous. I suggested a quick lunch and a nice bottle of New Zealand Sauvignon Blanc…it was very relaxing and we both confirmed that we wanted to go through with it. It was really unlikely that they were anything other than what they said…we had every reason to believe that my wife would be enjoying a nice big cock and a lot of attention from his wife and from me.

So we arrived at the hotel and walked up to the door…laughing about how out-of-character this was. But that didn’t stop us from knocking on the door. They were so nice and disarming immediately. We’ll call her Beth. Beth and Alex were great…flirty but respectful. She was about half dressed but Alex was fully dressed. They had been playing a little, but none of us really needed much encouragement to heighten the mood. My wife and I hadn’t been able to keep our hands off each other either. We came in and sat down on a couch….sipping wine and making chit chat. Beth really did take the lead to get the conversation going. But Alex was not shy…some gentle touching of my wife’s legs moved things along nicely. He asked politely if he could kiss her. She welcomed that and smiled as he leaned in to kiss her. She was dressed very casually…not too sexy, but then again with her body, one can’t help but notice those amazing curves. And her blue blouse did highlight those spectacular blue eyes. It is always a thrill to hear others give her the same praise I do…to gush over her eyes, her skin, and to be simply blow away by those amazing breasts and perfect little ass. Maybe it’s a special cuckold privilege to get such a charge from seeing your lady put on a pedestal, but I was enjoying their attentions to her instantly. She surprised me a bit by volunteering to slip into something more comfortable. She hates being social in her “work clothes”, so it hadn’t been hard to convince her to bring along a sexy little red teddy. She got up and went into the bathroom to change.

Alex and Beth were as excited as I was. They couldn’t keep their hands off each other as we waited the short few minutes for her to change. Alex sat next to me on the couch while Bet took out his cock. This was obviously my first opportunity to see his cock…suffice to say I was impressed. My jaw probably literally dropped. He was very hard and very thick. This was truly a big cock. My anticipation was certainly heightened, but again, they were so respectful and he quickly put his cock away after a short little blowjob before my wife came back into the room. I knew what is in store for her, but she really had no idea yet.

She walked back in wearing that red teddy…and it was quite an entrance. No one wasted any time in complimenting her body…her breasts are truly perfect in that teddy. They defy gravity like few mothers of 3 can boast…hell, hardly any woman of any age with breasts like that can demonstrate such perfect shape. As if on cue, my baby took center stage in front of the couch, standing while she was touched, caressed, and embraced. Alex didn’t really ask permission, but she obviously encouraged his hands to explore her breasts. Beth made sure it was OK for her to explore them as well. My girl had six hands exploring her…my face must have been glowing with excitement because she smiled big as she gazed right into my eyes. Alex took control, kissing her and letting his hands explore. But I just had to stand up and kiss her and let her feel my hard cock pressed against her. Now this teddy comes to just below her ass…her ass, legs, and pussy are readily available. Alex moved around behind her and was really kissing and exploring her neck as his hands worked her perfect ass. I kissed her lips and enjoyed her moans and soft words as she succumbed to the attention.

Then I saw it…my girl was caressing Alex’s bulge while they kissed deeply. She turned to him so she could better touch him. While I can’t necessarily explain it…the running commentary from Beth and Alex about her perfect eyes, her amazing tits, and her smooth skin just fed my fantasy perfectly. I think I was the first to lift one of her breasts from its confines and begin sucking, but as swoon as I took her nipple into my mouth I saw Alex enjoying her other breast. This is when I could hear the urgency in her voice as she uttered her trademark “oh, god”…this girl is transported close to heaven by having both breasts kissed and sucked at the same time. As Beth moved onto her breast as well, I took a seat to watch. Beth had pulled Alex’s pants down at some point..he was kissing and exploring my lady in his boxers. And I noticed instantly when my girl’s sweet French-manicured hand began exploring his amazing bulge. This was probably when she realized for the first time what she was in for…she made sure to make eye contact with me as her hand explored him. I could see pre-cum moistening his boxers as her hand enjoyed his hardness.

As she kissed and gave in to the attention from all sides….I knew she would be sucking his cock soon. We had talked quite a bit…and maybe even bragged…about her cock sucking skills. We told Beth while chatting that she rarely gagged on a big cock…she loves sucking and can usually accommodate a big cock deeply into her mouth. Now when I saw his cock, I had my doubts, but I know Alex must have been starved to put her to the test. I saw my girl mouth the words “Can I suck your cock?”. I throbbed and smiled inside. I think it was Beth who suggested that since it was her first time sucking him maybe I should give her his cock. My wife nodded her head as she looked up at me from her knees with those gorgeous blue eyes!

I was nervous, but everyone in the room knew I wanted to touch him. I reached out and held the biggest cock I’d ever seen in person…it was so thick and hard and had this amazing big round head. It was funny how I was sort of all business…didn’t really stroke or caress or enjoy it, just guided it to my girl’s lips, rubbing it over her face and chin and teasing her with it. She did not disappoint…opening wide and taking it in across those luscious lips of hers. She is incredible at sucking cock and she got right into it this time. She worked it in a bit slower than she does with my smaller one, but it was clear that she wanted to show she could take that big cock deep. No gagging, just some soft moaning and wet sloppy sucking…she took Alex’s cock very deep. We all watched and enjoyed…and again, I’m not sure who suggested it or how it happened, but next thing I knew I was on my knees beside her and she had a big smile on her face.

There it was right there in front of me, big and hard and all eyes were on me. I started with the head of course and couldn’t believe how much I had to stretch my mouth to get around it. My wife seemed so content to watch me work it…I tried to keep the saliva in my mouth to allow it to slide better, but damn that cock was big! Soon, I worked it in deeper and found myself swirling my tongue around…seeking my lady’s tongue and lips. We found each other and kissed around his big head…then both of us sliding down opposite sides of that big shaft. I tried to reach my tongue across the underside of his shaft to her tongue but we couldn’t touch that way. She was stroking him as well and kind of moving his cock back and forth between our mouths. A couple of times she took over and went deep on him…I got an amazing pang of jealousy and envy every time she did that.

Alex suggested we move over to the bed. I watched him dive between his lady’s legs and my wife took the hint and stripped off her teddy and spread her legs. I told her this later and I write the truth here…at that moment her beautiful pussy was the wettest I have ever experienced! Not only had she leaked down onto her thighs and ass a little (that is pretty common), but as soon as my tongue touched her swollen lips an absolute flood of delicious juices flowed out. I literally had to swallow two mouthfuls of her lubrication as she spread her legs and pulled me in. It was pretty much heaven to know she was enjoying this at least as much as I was. After some focused couples time, we moved around and Alex needed some more sucking. I watched my wife dive into his cock with her usual passion. He grabbed her head and proceeded to mouth fuck her pretty good…nothing but soft moans and pleasure noises as she enjoyed that big cock. His wife and I kissed my girl’s body and pampered her as best we could in that position.

Alex pulled her up to kiss him some while I got to the edge of the bed to taste his cock again. Since I first experienced it a few weeks before, that is perhaps the hottest position for me…to be sucking a man’s cock and looking up at them kissing…his hands on her big tits. I really enjoyed sucking him after her when his cock was still wet. He fucked my mouth too, which made me a bit nervous because he was so large, but I managed OK…not quite deep throating him but taking a respectable length of that huge cock. I could tell from her noises that my wife was ready to get fucked. I think it was Beth who asked her if she wanted to get fucked, and she said yes. I encouraged her to start things off, but I told her that I didn’t want to be the first to fuck her. She kissed me as we caressed each other for a while and she said she needed to get fucked; I told her I understood and wanted her to get fucked. She turned to Alex and asked him to “please fuck me”.

I don’t know about every man, but for a cuckold like me, that was one of the most amazing phrases I’d ever heard…my wife asking a man with a much bigger cock than mine to please fuck her! I was as hard as I had been all afternoon as I watched his wife helping him put a condom on that massive hard cock. My lady spread her legs wide and watched as he entered her. It was slow but steady and forceful. I actually couldn’t believe how easily he went in. And the sounds she made...my god, it seemed to be perfect for her. She immediately began a rhythm of moaning and soft exclamation that transcended her usual reaction to cock. After a few seconds, I could see that he was all the way in. He was up on his knees fucking her so that Beth and I could get easy access to her breasts and her lips. I mostly held her and kissed her while she got fucked. After perhaps a minute or two, she turned to Beth and cooed about how amazing he felt and how thick he was. Her voice had a very pleasant breathlessness to it that I have rarely heard. One of the best parts was that Alex totally took control. He wasn’t slamming it into her by any means, but it was a beautiful fucking motion with occasional changes in rhythm that really seemed to satisfy her.

As I have once before, I marveled at this control…sustained long hard strokes into that perfect pussy just aren’t something I can do very long. But this man really fucked her and seemed immune to those incredible little hip movements she does. She was talking softly and constantly. Beth was commenting a lot too about how beautiful she was enjoying her husband’s cock. I’m not sure how long it went on like this…I was stroking my cock, sucking her breasts, and kissing her, but I’m thinking it was probably 10 or 15 minutes of steady fucking. I had been watching carefully to see if she was hurting in any way or needed a break, but his instincts were good and she was steadily climbing into a realm of pleasure that we rarely get to. This is a reason to share my lady like this…she simply loves good fucking and as much as we make amazing love together and I can pleasure her and get her off, I just tend to lose control too quickly and cum, losing my hard on and at the very least breaking the momentum. But this guy stayed rock hard and kept exploring the depths of her beautiful pussy…and it was clearly working on her.

I was surprised when Alex pulled out and deftly got his condom off so he could pump his cum on her stomach. My wife gasped when he pulled out and came…she was panting and really into the moment, as was I. He shot a nice load of cum onto her, but then Beth looked right at my girl and said “stay right where you are”. My girl reached down and scooped up some of his cum on her finger and fed it to me. God, I loved that; he tasted great and I actually wanted more, but there was obviously more fucking to come. Beth put another condom on his still rock hard cock and he slipped it right back in. Beth told her, now you can really get fucked! And she did too…he scooped up her thighs and pulled her closer as he banged her like I’ve never seen her get fucked before. She gasped and moaned and her volume escalated with the intensity. Every other word was “oh god” or “oh fuck”. She kept telling Alex and his wife how good it felt. She was in heaven and didn’t care who knew it. Beth and I enjoyed it as her big tits rocked and bounced with the rhythm. This was a more intense fucking and I just continued to be in awe. His cock was as hard as when he’d started and he just kept going. It was so beautiful to see her truly giving in to this passion with a man she’d never met before. Again, every man probably would not enjoy the same feeling, but for a cuckold this was a time to beam with pride and desire for my lady. She had never looked more beautiful.

I think this was a little loner period of steady fucking, probably 15 to 20 minutes. He decided to take a little break so he pulled out and we all enjoyed kissing and touching with our partners. But as my girl was laying there with her legs spread and her well-fucked pussy beautifully parted…Alex wasted no time in going down on her. Again, I was a bit jealous. I really wanted to see and kiss her pussy after he had so expertly fucked her. But she spread he legs and moaned loudly with approval as he began tonguing her. She seemed surprised that he was so good…she was caught off guard…her breath lost and her moans not allowing her to catch it easily. I loved hearing her praise another man’s ability to pleasure her that way. She again enjoyed the attention of both Beth and me as we kissed her and made love to her amazing breasts. I found myself wondering if he would make her cum that way…something that doesn’t happen much with me. But one thing was for sure…she was loving the attention and not holding back.

All this time I had been talking with her, kissing her, and stroking my cock. As Alex took a break from devouring her perfect pussy, she turned her attention to me. She was genuinely thankful…thankful to Alex for fucking her, thankful to Beth for sharing him, and thankful to me for sharing her. She wasted no time in sucking my cock…deepthroating me with ease as she pumped me at the same time. This girl was hungry for my cum and wanted me to know it. I have little choice when she sucks me like this…it was building up and I knew I’d be cumming before I could feel her pussy wrapped around me. God, I exploded in her mouth…not holding back and actually enjoying everyone watching and knowing she was sucking down my cum.

As we took our little break, we got to watch Alex fucking Beth. That was hot in its own right. Beautiful to watch a woman getting fucked like that…and she was so sexy and vocal. I couldn’t believe this guy’s control. I found myself wondering what my wife was thinking while Alex fucked his wife…Did she want more? Was she going to miss that big cock? Etc. Soon, my questions were answered. Beth offered that they had another condom in case she wanted more…and I heard my girl speak up and volunteer…yes, she did. She quickly got up on all fours and pushed that sweet ass up in the air for Alex, making it clear that she wanted him from behind. That really is her favorite position; and this man was perfect for her in that respect. He liked to take control and knew how to take her. I watched as he got up on his knees and pressed his big cock into her. His hands grabbed her hips and took control of her body.

My god, her reaction was heavenly. He was filling her pussy like it had never been filled. I took my position on my knees beside the bed…so I could hold her, kiss her, and watch her amazing breasts as they hung there and swayed with the rhythm of his thrusts. I sucked her hardening nipples and listened as my wife was fucked better than I could ever manage. A few times her took her extra hard, truly ramming his dick into her, and that elicited a sort of yelp from her…a combination of a gasp and squeal. It was what she needed at that moment and quite frankly what she had asked me for many times. I love fucking her like that and we have enjoyed some amazing sex in that position. But this was different…it was raw and hard and intense…and beautiful.

At these moments, I so often forget my fantasies and kinkier desires. I have so many times pleasured myself thinking of lying beneath her and watching that other man’s cock enter her…here was an opportunity that I failed to seize. But she wanted to have two cocks in her so she asked to suck my cock. I gladly started mouth fucking her while Alex was so ably taking care of her beautiful pussy. It gave me an amazing view of her ass as he pleasured her with his huge cock. Her moaning on my cock only made it better to watch and appreciate why she was moaning like that. Again, I marveled at how he could keep up that pace and intensity. But she was obviously glad that he could.

As sex tends to do after a couple of hours, things slowed down and he slipped out of her pussy without ever having cum that second time. We actually had some time to lie on the bed and relax and to touch and talk softly. It was nice to chat a little and enjoy the down time. My girl looked so beautiful…a little tired, her hair a little messy, but so relaxed. We kissed and talked a while longer. Then we got up, got dressed, and started saying our goodbyes. This had been an amazing first meeting…and I think both of us were surprised how intense it was and what a great fit this couple was. We are still so new to this, but we’ve realized how intense the experience can be and we are ready for more. There is this process of letting down one’s guard and opening up to the possibilities…I think we have both started that journey. I love my lady and I see sharing her like this as putting her on a pedestal and making the focus be entirely on her.

Anticipation - Is it the Best Part?

I certainly read a lot about anticipation in many of the shared wife or cuckold fantasies and real life stories. The powerful link between our minds and our sex drives certainly drives a lot of erotica. I suppose one of the best parts of our experiences in this lifestyle so far is how the reality seems to fit so well with our expectations and fantasies. The reality is at least as good as the fantasy has been. Still, I love the teasing as our plans for a new adventure begin to unfold. My lady certainly enjoys that too...she has gotten so comfortable and confident that she seizes the opportunity to explore what might happen next...and to tease me with it.

There are a few guys out there who have already met my girl or are hoping to. I suppose our success rate between establishing some basic connection/attraction and the several no-shows is pretty close to 1 in 10. So, the first emails, conversations, or meeting are very important. One such guy who seemed like a good fit but whom we hadn't gotten a chance to meet has finally come back in the picture. He sent a picture and she liked his looks. He loved the pics of my girl! It seems that he is a "boob man"; and as she always says "Boobs I've got!". Truth be told, that the guy is a boob man is actually a criterion for her too. She likes knowing they are into her body. This guy sent her a great note and they are planning to meet up later this week for drinks.

I just love knowing that and try to get her to talk to me about it whenever I can. She is a great sport and occasionally surprises with a sexy little remark or two. I find myself really hoping that it works out..he seems like a great fit. And she is surprisingly interested in having another close male friend. That would only make two additional partners, so I am more than encouraging.

I'll spend the next few days anticipating their meeting. They will both share emails with me...and I'll likely chat on line with him. It will be a busy week, with me again on the road for business. So their first meeting will happen with me out of town. I actually enjoy that scenario. She is great about keeping me filled in by text message during her dates. That just drives me even crazier. I can't help myself wondering exactly how far she'll go..how hot it will get...that slight pang of jealousy making all the passion sweeter. It is also fascinating to me to read in all these other blogs so many references to text messaging during a hot wife outing or phone calls or whatever...and here I thought I was strange or something. So far, the most she has let happen on a first date is some fondling of her breasts and kissing; and she did feel one guy's cock through his pants at least.

But this time IS different afterall. This will be her first date since we got active at the swingers club and also since she has actually had sex with another guy. She knows my reaction...that I really do enjoy seeing her play. She knows that our relationship is strong enough...perhaps even stronger from the experiences. She has enjoyed the attention of several other men and knows how to play the role of the hot wife seductress. She definitely is less inhibited...I suspect and indeed hope that she will let this first date go a bit farther than usual. The guy she is meeting is also experienced with other couples and at clubs. My girl has proven herself as having no reservations about letting her hair down and enjoying...she's sucked cock and now finally even been fucked.

I write tonight in about day 2 of my anticipation. She still has to finalize her plans with him, and then she and I will talk about what she thinks will happen. Typically she tells me that she'd rather not go all the way with a guy without me there...but that was before she got so comfortable. She also knows, and I said it again today, that she has my full support to go as far as she likes. It is a huge turn on for me to think of her sucking cock or getting fucked when I'm not there. A few times she has texted to ask permission before she kissed or before she let a guy play with her tits....that was a great thrill. I look forward to a text message this week telling me about how big his cock is, or how good he feels in side her, or how amazing his cum tastes. I suppose one hot thing about this lifestyle is that such things are now possible!

I will write more as the event draws closer. I also have a third chapter to share about our experiences at the swingers club.
I'll make this a short one and publish it now. I'm still trying to figure out how to market this thing and get some readership on this blog. I would appreciate any suggestions on that. I'd also love to hear the thoughts of others on this part of the adventure of having a hot wife! I'll keep on telling my stories of anticipation AND good detailed descriptions when the fun stuff happens. I am hoping to get her to write up her account of her date to share with all of you. I look forward to seeing if the reality is half as good as my fantasies!

Bye for now.

A Couple Very Much in Love Exploring a New Lifestyle - Chapter 2: She Finally Gets Fucked

Chapter 1 is about my first experience sharing my girl with another man. At that time we had only explored touching, kissing, and oral sex. Since then we have continued to play at our favorite swingers club and we also had our second rendezvous with that male friend.

I have to say that the experience of sharing my wife and the lifestyle in general continues to exceed both our expectations. I have watched her become comfortable with showing off her body and even to anticipate the opportunities for other men (and women) to enjoy her body. It makes me hotter than I can describe to see this evolution. Interestingly, the swingers club is not the best place to explore some aspects of our fantasies. Most of the people are so respectful and have rules between couples that generally don’t translate to a guy fucking another guy’s lady or our fantasies for me to give oral to another guy with my lady. So we actually began discussing whether we should bring a male friend along with us to our favorite club. She was quick to be enthusiastic about that idea and encouraged our friend to come along. We hadn’t seen him since the last time we played, but he was willing and anxious.

That finally happened last weekend. We hosted him for dinner first, and the tension began there as my lady dressed very provocatively. She wore a button down blouse with several buttons undone and a spectacular red push up bra that was too small for her 38DD’s. I noticed and he noticed. Her nipples were pretty much on display for most of dinner. They spent a little bit of time alone outside having a smoke, but it was mostly talking and polite flirting. We talked about the club a lot and he was very excited for his first such experience. When I went upstairs to change, she later told me he kissed her and she enthusiastically kissed him back.

When we arrived at the club and introduced him around, she wasted no time in relaxing and openly enjoying her “two dates”. All you cuckold wanna-be’s can imagine how hot it would be to watch your lady publicly touching and kissing another man. With her eyes locked on me, she initiated beautiful deep kisses several times. Their tongues played right in front of my eyes…and his hands often found her tits as they spilled out of the bra and sheet halter top. We sat down for a drink and to people watch, and it was all very comfortable and relaxed. She soon nonchalantly had her hand on his thigh and his bulge…right in front of me. And my own bulge went unattended. She knew it was how I wanted it…I got plenty of kisses and sexy whispers. She was not being rude or ignoring me at all, but she knew I wanted the teasing. She said to several people how much fun she was having and how lucky she was to have the greatest husband in the world.

They went out to the smoking patio, where she has always liked to flirt with another couple of friends who hang out there with cigars. I left her alone for a while, visiting with other friends and cruising the place. I kept her drink refilled and she showed her appreciation for that. Whenever I came out, the conversation was easy and comfortable. I could kiss and touch her as I pleased…but she never left our friend out. She was touching and kissing him constantly. Another guy friend also got his share of tongue and her boobs. Occasionally if I got too deep into some conversation, she would steal the show by kissing one of her men…or taking her tits out and enjoying their sucking in the cool night air. Her breasts will always betray her…as she gets touched and sucked more her guard goes down and her fate is sealed. She was laughing and truly enjoying the attention and the blatant flirting and anticipation. More than once I saw her hand wander to his cock…openly exploring his hard-on. Another friend also made sure she knew how hard he was. I’m not sure if she did this night, but she usually does some kissing and touching with his girlfriend too. It’s so nice to see her enjoying the attention, the flattery, etc. She is such an amazing lady and it’s so rewarding to see her enjoying herself as we all celebrate her beauty and sexuality….the atmosphere is just so hot and so much fun!

Soon, she was talking about taking him back to a private room. She said she wanted to start off with him alone, but she was a little nervous. We laughed, kissed, and touched…and I told her to go ahead. She led him inside and we had another drink while he fondled her ass and breasts…they kissed a lot. Her eager tongue was literally showing off right in front of me. She took his hand and led him back to a sort of voyeur room…she told me to come watch in a few minutes.

I’ll fill in some details as to what happened from what she told me later. She got him back there in a room with a couple of beds but an open door and observation window. She kissed him deeply for a while…lots of touching and exploring. She told him to take out his cock and sit on the bed. She got immediately down on her knees and started sucking him. Eventually crawling onto the bed and putting her little ass up in the air. She was still clothed, but her big tits were constantly spilling out. For several minutes, she sucked him enthusiastically. By the time I arrived he was fully reclined and enjoying her attention. Several people were watching as I joined in, watching through the observation window. He looked at me and smiled…she couldn’t see me. He said something and she climbed up on top of him and kissed him…then pulled out her breasts and I could only see her bouncing from behind…but I knew she was tit fucking him. This went on for quite a while. Then he moved her up on to the bed and took her pants off…he invited me in.

I came around and started licking and eating her beautiful shaved pussy while he kissed her and played with her perfect tits. They were really making out as I licked and sucked her dripping and swollen pussy. Again, several people were watching from outside. He came down and wanted to give her oral, so I climbed up to kiss her…she was gasping and moaning…truly aroused and loving the progression of the passion. Maybe it was my imagination, but she sure seemed to enjoy his lips and tongue even better than mine! We both enjoy how the sex is even hotter due to the sort of taboo…the intensity and newness of the passion. But it’s also a great feeling for me to enjoy the experience without being threatened or overly jealous…that tiny bit of jealousy just makes it hotter! And she knows that!

She suggested we get a private room and really get comfortable. So we found our way to a perfect room with a bed and dim lighting. As I got undressed, I turned and saw them making out with full body contact. She was naked in seconds…and he again dove into her sloppy pussy. She lay back beside me and we kissed as he ate her. I was stroking my cock as this man made love to my girl’s pussy with his mouth. She climbed over and started to lick and suck me. Her ass was up in the air and her pussy ready for him…not by accident. God, he seemed so smooth and so quick to mount her. She just loves to get fucked doggie style and he obviously knew it. I could hear and feel her moans as he penetrated her. His strong hands on her ass and hips as he drove it in….she was loving it. She only broke stride on my cock to raise up and moan and talk about how great it felt. He kept it going for a long time….his control really was incredible…probably helped by wearing a condom to be fair! LOL. But this guy pounded my girl’s pussy for quite a while. She obviously loved it. As he pulled out and they changed positions, she pulled off his condom and dove onto his cock. I definitely wasn’t her focus in that moment, but she quickly presented her pussy for me to eat. I didn’t waste time. She made the most of it…sucking him, kissing him.

She rolled over and spread her legs as her face was full of his cock. I entered her just-fucked pussy….couldn’t believe how great it was. She was as wet and swollen as I’ve ever known her to be. I was immediately battling the need to cum as I watched her get her tits sucked and pump his cock. I tried to fuck her hard and deep…giving her cock like I’d dreamed about. But I wasn’t at my best…LOL…it was just too much for me! I exploded in her…and she didn’t mind a bit. She knew there was a lot more in store for her.

As I lay there and watched them and tried to recover, she was really going after his cock. I was secretly hoping that she’d tell me to clean her up and eat my own cum out of her but she was just focused on his cock. He was so hard for her...not huge…but hard as hell and a great head. And she needed more fucking…he rolled over onto his back and she just mounted him. God, did she ride him?! You know how a girl can get up off her knees and sort of squat on the cock? She got into that position and rode him really well. Every now and then she would lean over and kiss him or hang her big tits in his face. She looked right at me while she whimpered and moaned…she was really enjoying his cock.

I just lay beside him and looked up at her and occasionally kissed her. God, I can’t believe he lasted so long…those hips were rocking and pumping on his cock. But he kept giving it to her and she got louder and louder. She said she didn’t cum…but I wonder if she did but didn’t want to admit it to me. She was definitely enjoying it though. Seems like she might have cum on his cock…but he didn’t cum. They must have fucked in that position for 10 or 15 minutes!!

She asked for a break and pulled off his cock...ripped off his condom and started sucking him again. Then it happened…she crooked her finger at me to come help. I nervously crawled up to his cock while she sucked him…she sort of handed it over to me…I licked…explored with my tongue…took a little more in. He was so hard and it was so hot. She encouraged me and I took more in…she started sucking with me, our tongues entwining, and I enjoyed the feeling of his hardness in my mouth. She pumped it for me…I pumped it for her. We truly sucked his cock together. I loved how wet he was from her sucking; it was easy and comfortable to move the cock back and forth and to put both our mouths on him at once. She spent a lot of time watching…and she truly enjoyed it. So did I.

After a while of that, she made out with him while I sucked. Then next thing I knew she started sucking me, and I got hard again. Soon…he was climbing over to help HER out. I couldn’t believe he was willing to suck me like that. It was very hot….she was loving it and encouraging him too. After that went on for a while, she suggested we take a break. So we got dressed with lots of touching and kissing. I think I was the only one who had cum at this point.

I can tell you this….a girl changes towards a guy when she’s been well fucked by him. It was so cool to see how much comfortable she was with him and more touchy with him after that. She hardly stopped touching him after that as we cruised along the club. At one point where he got separated to watch another couple, she wondered where he was and had me go get him. He really got her going and I know she was hot for more.

He did re-join us and came to join us in this semi private area where we watched other couples fuck and she sat there with her tits out. After some kissing and touching…he just took his cock out. She obediently took it into her mouth and proceeded to give him an amazing public blowjob. God, the feeling I got when seeing her deep throat him! Wow. She was loving it. We climbed onto this bed and he just lay back while she crawled on top and sucked him aggressively. He was moaning and so was she...she was focused only on his cock and I watched closely. I wanted to join in, but was too nervous to suck cock in front of everyone else. Finally, he blew his load…and she just kept right on sucking. After a minute she pulled off and kissed me…deeply..sharing about half a mouthful of his cum with me. Right in front of several people watching…it ran down my chin…it was everywhere. But it was delicious so I swallowed and lick some of her lips and chin, and she cleaned me up as well.

One thing I really loved is that she kept her hands on his cock...he didn’t even go soft. God, I was jealous of that cock at that moment. She played with him, stroked him, kissed his cock some more. It was beautiful to watch. Unfortunately it was after 2am by this time and he was tired and had to leave. She kissed him goodbye and then we kissed and talked for a while about how great it was. It was a life changing experience…I hope you enjoyed reading about it. I’m sure there will be lots more.

I’d love to hear your thoughts and comments.

A Couple Very Much in Love Exploring a New Lifestyle - Chapter 1: First Time Sharing Her

Well, she encouraged me to start a blog about this. I've been having so much fun and so hot about our first experiences with this. It's just the beginning for us and hopefully I'll have much more to write over the coming months. I hope to start a dialogue about wife sharing or other aspects of these types of fantasies, so please feel free to post your comments or direct me to your blogs or other similar writings.

Anyway, we are a couple right around 40; we are both on our second marriages and got it right this time around. We’ve been together about 8 years and each have kids from previous marriages. For a couple of years it has been my fantasy to share her...she always seemed open minded about the fantasy. We did storytelling in bed and on the phone, even some roleplay. We got into taking photos and even short videos during sex. I have read up quite a bit on the meaning of being a cuckold and variations of that and the so-called “lifestyle” of swinging, etc. The facts are: we have a great relationship; we have great sex; we understand the meaning of great sex; and we have a huge amount of trust between us. We began talking more and more specifically; and it just seemed to fit. She is a beautiful woman with an amazing body, perfect tits and ass...and she doesnt mind showing them off! She has long dark brown hair, blue eyes, and amazing 38DD tits. She is a bit girly…very feminine, just the way I like it. So she dresses sexy and soft at the same time. Anyway, our fantasy progressed to the point that she thought she might enjoy MMF with the right guy, or possibly a hookup with a couple. But she wasn't comfortable with me being with another woman, which was fine with me! She's more than enough woman for me.

Long story short, we posted an ad on Adultfriendfinder and began "interviewing" candidates. She went for lunch or drinks with several guys...we figured if she didn't like them, it made no sense to go forward. It was all about her. She would text me with details of her meetings…sometimes touching and kissing, sometimes not. But she loved teasing me and I loved hearing all the details. We contemplated second dates or threesome hookups with a couple of guys, but it finally worked out with one.

Her first meeting with him was low key, pretty good conversation, and with plenty of flirting and just a bit of touching. She said they kissed a little but nothing heavy. After all, (in her words) if the guy is a bad kisser, it ain’t gonna work.

We met for drinks with him and it was great, good chemistry, flirting, and such. We hadn’t planned ahead too much, but figured we could take it step by step if it went well. It did, so we went back to our place eventually and sat and talked. Then there was some kissing and touching. She went upstairs and changed, a sexy little tank top with no bra and tight thin little pajama pants. God, it was such a thrill to see her kissing him...his hands on her tits...and her smile and lusty looks at me. It progressed nicely...her breasts are amazingly sensitive...once he and I both started sucking them I knew she'd be relaxing and getting into it...and she did!!

I actually lifted up one of her 38DD's for him to have his first taste. God, it was beautiful…and she was quickly getting hotter and hotter...she was so ready. One of the hottest images for me was looking up and seeing them kiss while I sucked her perfect tits. He went for her pussy pretty quick, slipping off her thin little pajama bottoms and diving in. I kissed her and played with her tits and talked softly about how beautiful it was to see her being made love to. I think we were both a little surprised how smoothly it was going and how much we were enjoying ourselves. She soon asked for my cock…wanted to suck me while he was eating her. It was amazing. Before long, it happened...she asked for his cock...she wanted his cock in her mouth instead of mine...i was finally going to see it.

It was amazing...i got down on my knees between her legs so I could look up and see my girl reach for another hard cock. She wasted no time...dove into that cock...grabbed it and was deep throating him in no time. I was a little disappointed he wasn't bigger than me...she probably was too...but didn't let on. I suppose that’s a classic sort of cuckold fantasy for the guy to be bigger, but it was super hot and he was really hard for her. She was moaning softly and spreading her legs wide for me to eat her.

God, she was beautiful sucking that cock...her pussy tasted better than it ever had. And I loved being on my knees looking up at her sucking him. Soon, I couldn't resist...she got on all fours to invite me and to suck him better; I had to fuck her. I had to give her that second cock inside her at once....we had talked about it so many times. I slipped my cock into her drenched and spread pussy. I knew I wouldn't last long, but I couldn't resist.
She was moaning and enjoying that fucking as much as any I could remember. Unfortunately, my cum built up and I knew I couldn't hold back. So I exploded inside my girl as she enjoyed another man's cock in her mouth.

Unfortunately, things began to wind down there...we were constrained for time and he had to get going. I imagine we’d had more energy and would have taken it further if we hadn’t drunk so much. LOL. But this was an important first step for us and it was just a couple of months ago. We followed this experience with some amazing trips to a great swingers club...where we've been with a couple of couples. I'll write more about those experiences next time. She is really opening up and enjoying herself. Off to a great start and ready for so much more. But to this point, she still hasn't been fucked by another guy....that is soon to come though!

So, I would love to hear thoughts and comments on these first experiences and how great it went...I'm so excited for more. It is great to share these fantasies with like-minded people. It’s been quite a discovery for us.

I'll definitely share more and maybe some pictures as well.

Bye for now.