Anticipation - Is it the Best Part?

I certainly read a lot about anticipation in many of the shared wife or cuckold fantasies and real life stories. The powerful link between our minds and our sex drives certainly drives a lot of erotica. I suppose one of the best parts of our experiences in this lifestyle so far is how the reality seems to fit so well with our expectations and fantasies. The reality is at least as good as the fantasy has been. Still, I love the teasing as our plans for a new adventure begin to unfold. My lady certainly enjoys that too...she has gotten so comfortable and confident that she seizes the opportunity to explore what might happen next...and to tease me with it.

There are a few guys out there who have already met my girl or are hoping to. I suppose our success rate between establishing some basic connection/attraction and the several no-shows is pretty close to 1 in 10. So, the first emails, conversations, or meeting are very important. One such guy who seemed like a good fit but whom we hadn't gotten a chance to meet has finally come back in the picture. He sent a picture and she liked his looks. He loved the pics of my girl! It seems that he is a "boob man"; and as she always says "Boobs I've got!". Truth be told, that the guy is a boob man is actually a criterion for her too. She likes knowing they are into her body. This guy sent her a great note and they are planning to meet up later this week for drinks.

I just love knowing that and try to get her to talk to me about it whenever I can. She is a great sport and occasionally surprises with a sexy little remark or two. I find myself really hoping that it works out..he seems like a great fit. And she is surprisingly interested in having another close male friend. That would only make two additional partners, so I am more than encouraging.

I'll spend the next few days anticipating their meeting. They will both share emails with me...and I'll likely chat on line with him. It will be a busy week, with me again on the road for business. So their first meeting will happen with me out of town. I actually enjoy that scenario. She is great about keeping me filled in by text message during her dates. That just drives me even crazier. I can't help myself wondering exactly how far she'll go..how hot it will get...that slight pang of jealousy making all the passion sweeter. It is also fascinating to me to read in all these other blogs so many references to text messaging during a hot wife outing or phone calls or whatever...and here I thought I was strange or something. So far, the most she has let happen on a first date is some fondling of her breasts and kissing; and she did feel one guy's cock through his pants at least.

But this time IS different afterall. This will be her first date since we got active at the swingers club and also since she has actually had sex with another guy. She knows my reaction...that I really do enjoy seeing her play. She knows that our relationship is strong enough...perhaps even stronger from the experiences. She has enjoyed the attention of several other men and knows how to play the role of the hot wife seductress. She definitely is less inhibited...I suspect and indeed hope that she will let this first date go a bit farther than usual. The guy she is meeting is also experienced with other couples and at clubs. My girl has proven herself as having no reservations about letting her hair down and enjoying...she's sucked cock and now finally even been fucked.

I write tonight in about day 2 of my anticipation. She still has to finalize her plans with him, and then she and I will talk about what she thinks will happen. Typically she tells me that she'd rather not go all the way with a guy without me there...but that was before she got so comfortable. She also knows, and I said it again today, that she has my full support to go as far as she likes. It is a huge turn on for me to think of her sucking cock or getting fucked when I'm not there. A few times she has texted to ask permission before she kissed or before she let a guy play with her tits....that was a great thrill. I look forward to a text message this week telling me about how big his cock is, or how good he feels in side her, or how amazing his cum tastes. I suppose one hot thing about this lifestyle is that such things are now possible!

I will write more as the event draws closer. I also have a third chapter to share about our experiences at the swingers club.
I'll make this a short one and publish it now. I'm still trying to figure out how to market this thing and get some readership on this blog. I would appreciate any suggestions on that. I'd also love to hear the thoughts of others on this part of the adventure of having a hot wife! I'll keep on telling my stories of anticipation AND good detailed descriptions when the fun stuff happens. I am hoping to get her to write up her account of her date to share with all of you. I look forward to seeing if the reality is half as good as my fantasies!

Bye for now.

A Couple Very Much in Love Exploring a New Lifestyle - Chapter 2: She Finally Gets Fucked

Chapter 1 is about my first experience sharing my girl with another man. At that time we had only explored touching, kissing, and oral sex. Since then we have continued to play at our favorite swingers club and we also had our second rendezvous with that male friend.

I have to say that the experience of sharing my wife and the lifestyle in general continues to exceed both our expectations. I have watched her become comfortable with showing off her body and even to anticipate the opportunities for other men (and women) to enjoy her body. It makes me hotter than I can describe to see this evolution. Interestingly, the swingers club is not the best place to explore some aspects of our fantasies. Most of the people are so respectful and have rules between couples that generally don’t translate to a guy fucking another guy’s lady or our fantasies for me to give oral to another guy with my lady. So we actually began discussing whether we should bring a male friend along with us to our favorite club. She was quick to be enthusiastic about that idea and encouraged our friend to come along. We hadn’t seen him since the last time we played, but he was willing and anxious.

That finally happened last weekend. We hosted him for dinner first, and the tension began there as my lady dressed very provocatively. She wore a button down blouse with several buttons undone and a spectacular red push up bra that was too small for her 38DD’s. I noticed and he noticed. Her nipples were pretty much on display for most of dinner. They spent a little bit of time alone outside having a smoke, but it was mostly talking and polite flirting. We talked about the club a lot and he was very excited for his first such experience. When I went upstairs to change, she later told me he kissed her and she enthusiastically kissed him back.

When we arrived at the club and introduced him around, she wasted no time in relaxing and openly enjoying her “two dates”. All you cuckold wanna-be’s can imagine how hot it would be to watch your lady publicly touching and kissing another man. With her eyes locked on me, she initiated beautiful deep kisses several times. Their tongues played right in front of my eyes…and his hands often found her tits as they spilled out of the bra and sheet halter top. We sat down for a drink and to people watch, and it was all very comfortable and relaxed. She soon nonchalantly had her hand on his thigh and his bulge…right in front of me. And my own bulge went unattended. She knew it was how I wanted it…I got plenty of kisses and sexy whispers. She was not being rude or ignoring me at all, but she knew I wanted the teasing. She said to several people how much fun she was having and how lucky she was to have the greatest husband in the world.

They went out to the smoking patio, where she has always liked to flirt with another couple of friends who hang out there with cigars. I left her alone for a while, visiting with other friends and cruising the place. I kept her drink refilled and she showed her appreciation for that. Whenever I came out, the conversation was easy and comfortable. I could kiss and touch her as I pleased…but she never left our friend out. She was touching and kissing him constantly. Another guy friend also got his share of tongue and her boobs. Occasionally if I got too deep into some conversation, she would steal the show by kissing one of her men…or taking her tits out and enjoying their sucking in the cool night air. Her breasts will always betray her…as she gets touched and sucked more her guard goes down and her fate is sealed. She was laughing and truly enjoying the attention and the blatant flirting and anticipation. More than once I saw her hand wander to his cock…openly exploring his hard-on. Another friend also made sure she knew how hard he was. I’m not sure if she did this night, but she usually does some kissing and touching with his girlfriend too. It’s so nice to see her enjoying the attention, the flattery, etc. She is such an amazing lady and it’s so rewarding to see her enjoying herself as we all celebrate her beauty and sexuality….the atmosphere is just so hot and so much fun!

Soon, she was talking about taking him back to a private room. She said she wanted to start off with him alone, but she was a little nervous. We laughed, kissed, and touched…and I told her to go ahead. She led him inside and we had another drink while he fondled her ass and breasts…they kissed a lot. Her eager tongue was literally showing off right in front of me. She took his hand and led him back to a sort of voyeur room…she told me to come watch in a few minutes.

I’ll fill in some details as to what happened from what she told me later. She got him back there in a room with a couple of beds but an open door and observation window. She kissed him deeply for a while…lots of touching and exploring. She told him to take out his cock and sit on the bed. She got immediately down on her knees and started sucking him. Eventually crawling onto the bed and putting her little ass up in the air. She was still clothed, but her big tits were constantly spilling out. For several minutes, she sucked him enthusiastically. By the time I arrived he was fully reclined and enjoying her attention. Several people were watching as I joined in, watching through the observation window. He looked at me and smiled…she couldn’t see me. He said something and she climbed up on top of him and kissed him…then pulled out her breasts and I could only see her bouncing from behind…but I knew she was tit fucking him. This went on for quite a while. Then he moved her up on to the bed and took her pants off…he invited me in.

I came around and started licking and eating her beautiful shaved pussy while he kissed her and played with her perfect tits. They were really making out as I licked and sucked her dripping and swollen pussy. Again, several people were watching from outside. He came down and wanted to give her oral, so I climbed up to kiss her…she was gasping and moaning…truly aroused and loving the progression of the passion. Maybe it was my imagination, but she sure seemed to enjoy his lips and tongue even better than mine! We both enjoy how the sex is even hotter due to the sort of taboo…the intensity and newness of the passion. But it’s also a great feeling for me to enjoy the experience without being threatened or overly jealous…that tiny bit of jealousy just makes it hotter! And she knows that!

She suggested we get a private room and really get comfortable. So we found our way to a perfect room with a bed and dim lighting. As I got undressed, I turned and saw them making out with full body contact. She was naked in seconds…and he again dove into her sloppy pussy. She lay back beside me and we kissed as he ate her. I was stroking my cock as this man made love to my girl’s pussy with his mouth. She climbed over and started to lick and suck me. Her ass was up in the air and her pussy ready for him…not by accident. God, he seemed so smooth and so quick to mount her. She just loves to get fucked doggie style and he obviously knew it. I could hear and feel her moans as he penetrated her. His strong hands on her ass and hips as he drove it in….she was loving it. She only broke stride on my cock to raise up and moan and talk about how great it felt. He kept it going for a long time….his control really was incredible…probably helped by wearing a condom to be fair! LOL. But this guy pounded my girl’s pussy for quite a while. She obviously loved it. As he pulled out and they changed positions, she pulled off his condom and dove onto his cock. I definitely wasn’t her focus in that moment, but she quickly presented her pussy for me to eat. I didn’t waste time. She made the most of it…sucking him, kissing him.

She rolled over and spread her legs as her face was full of his cock. I entered her just-fucked pussy….couldn’t believe how great it was. She was as wet and swollen as I’ve ever known her to be. I was immediately battling the need to cum as I watched her get her tits sucked and pump his cock. I tried to fuck her hard and deep…giving her cock like I’d dreamed about. But I wasn’t at my best…LOL…it was just too much for me! I exploded in her…and she didn’t mind a bit. She knew there was a lot more in store for her.

As I lay there and watched them and tried to recover, she was really going after his cock. I was secretly hoping that she’d tell me to clean her up and eat my own cum out of her but she was just focused on his cock. He was so hard for her...not huge…but hard as hell and a great head. And she needed more fucking…he rolled over onto his back and she just mounted him. God, did she ride him?! You know how a girl can get up off her knees and sort of squat on the cock? She got into that position and rode him really well. Every now and then she would lean over and kiss him or hang her big tits in his face. She looked right at me while she whimpered and moaned…she was really enjoying his cock.

I just lay beside him and looked up at her and occasionally kissed her. God, I can’t believe he lasted so long…those hips were rocking and pumping on his cock. But he kept giving it to her and she got louder and louder. She said she didn’t cum…but I wonder if she did but didn’t want to admit it to me. She was definitely enjoying it though. Seems like she might have cum on his cock…but he didn’t cum. They must have fucked in that position for 10 or 15 minutes!!

She asked for a break and pulled off his cock...ripped off his condom and started sucking him again. Then it happened…she crooked her finger at me to come help. I nervously crawled up to his cock while she sucked him…she sort of handed it over to me…I licked…explored with my tongue…took a little more in. He was so hard and it was so hot. She encouraged me and I took more in…she started sucking with me, our tongues entwining, and I enjoyed the feeling of his hardness in my mouth. She pumped it for me…I pumped it for her. We truly sucked his cock together. I loved how wet he was from her sucking; it was easy and comfortable to move the cock back and forth and to put both our mouths on him at once. She spent a lot of time watching…and she truly enjoyed it. So did I.

After a while of that, she made out with him while I sucked. Then next thing I knew she started sucking me, and I got hard again. Soon…he was climbing over to help HER out. I couldn’t believe he was willing to suck me like that. It was very hot….she was loving it and encouraging him too. After that went on for a while, she suggested we take a break. So we got dressed with lots of touching and kissing. I think I was the only one who had cum at this point.

I can tell you this….a girl changes towards a guy when she’s been well fucked by him. It was so cool to see how much comfortable she was with him and more touchy with him after that. She hardly stopped touching him after that as we cruised along the club. At one point where he got separated to watch another couple, she wondered where he was and had me go get him. He really got her going and I know she was hot for more.

He did re-join us and came to join us in this semi private area where we watched other couples fuck and she sat there with her tits out. After some kissing and touching…he just took his cock out. She obediently took it into her mouth and proceeded to give him an amazing public blowjob. God, the feeling I got when seeing her deep throat him! Wow. She was loving it. We climbed onto this bed and he just lay back while she crawled on top and sucked him aggressively. He was moaning and so was she...she was focused only on his cock and I watched closely. I wanted to join in, but was too nervous to suck cock in front of everyone else. Finally, he blew his load…and she just kept right on sucking. After a minute she pulled off and kissed me…deeply..sharing about half a mouthful of his cum with me. Right in front of several people watching…it ran down my chin…it was everywhere. But it was delicious so I swallowed and lick some of her lips and chin, and she cleaned me up as well.

One thing I really loved is that she kept her hands on his cock...he didn’t even go soft. God, I was jealous of that cock at that moment. She played with him, stroked him, kissed his cock some more. It was beautiful to watch. Unfortunately it was after 2am by this time and he was tired and had to leave. She kissed him goodbye and then we kissed and talked for a while about how great it was. It was a life changing experience…I hope you enjoyed reading about it. I’m sure there will be lots more.

I’d love to hear your thoughts and comments.

A Couple Very Much in Love Exploring a New Lifestyle - Chapter 1: First Time Sharing Her

Well, she encouraged me to start a blog about this. I've been having so much fun and so hot about our first experiences with this. It's just the beginning for us and hopefully I'll have much more to write over the coming months. I hope to start a dialogue about wife sharing or other aspects of these types of fantasies, so please feel free to post your comments or direct me to your blogs or other similar writings.

Anyway, we are a couple right around 40; we are both on our second marriages and got it right this time around. We’ve been together about 8 years and each have kids from previous marriages. For a couple of years it has been my fantasy to share her...she always seemed open minded about the fantasy. We did storytelling in bed and on the phone, even some roleplay. We got into taking photos and even short videos during sex. I have read up quite a bit on the meaning of being a cuckold and variations of that and the so-called “lifestyle” of swinging, etc. The facts are: we have a great relationship; we have great sex; we understand the meaning of great sex; and we have a huge amount of trust between us. We began talking more and more specifically; and it just seemed to fit. She is a beautiful woman with an amazing body, perfect tits and ass...and she doesnt mind showing them off! She has long dark brown hair, blue eyes, and amazing 38DD tits. She is a bit girly…very feminine, just the way I like it. So she dresses sexy and soft at the same time. Anyway, our fantasy progressed to the point that she thought she might enjoy MMF with the right guy, or possibly a hookup with a couple. But she wasn't comfortable with me being with another woman, which was fine with me! She's more than enough woman for me.

Long story short, we posted an ad on Adultfriendfinder and began "interviewing" candidates. She went for lunch or drinks with several guys...we figured if she didn't like them, it made no sense to go forward. It was all about her. She would text me with details of her meetings…sometimes touching and kissing, sometimes not. But she loved teasing me and I loved hearing all the details. We contemplated second dates or threesome hookups with a couple of guys, but it finally worked out with one.

Her first meeting with him was low key, pretty good conversation, and with plenty of flirting and just a bit of touching. She said they kissed a little but nothing heavy. After all, (in her words) if the guy is a bad kisser, it ain’t gonna work.

We met for drinks with him and it was great, good chemistry, flirting, and such. We hadn’t planned ahead too much, but figured we could take it step by step if it went well. It did, so we went back to our place eventually and sat and talked. Then there was some kissing and touching. She went upstairs and changed, a sexy little tank top with no bra and tight thin little pajama pants. God, it was such a thrill to see her kissing him...his hands on her tits...and her smile and lusty looks at me. It progressed nicely...her breasts are amazingly sensitive...once he and I both started sucking them I knew she'd be relaxing and getting into it...and she did!!

I actually lifted up one of her 38DD's for him to have his first taste. God, it was beautiful…and she was quickly getting hotter and hotter...she was so ready. One of the hottest images for me was looking up and seeing them kiss while I sucked her perfect tits. He went for her pussy pretty quick, slipping off her thin little pajama bottoms and diving in. I kissed her and played with her tits and talked softly about how beautiful it was to see her being made love to. I think we were both a little surprised how smoothly it was going and how much we were enjoying ourselves. She soon asked for my cock…wanted to suck me while he was eating her. It was amazing. Before long, it happened...she asked for his cock...she wanted his cock in her mouth instead of mine...i was finally going to see it.

It was amazing...i got down on my knees between her legs so I could look up and see my girl reach for another hard cock. She wasted no time...dove into that cock...grabbed it and was deep throating him in no time. I was a little disappointed he wasn't bigger than me...she probably was too...but didn't let on. I suppose that’s a classic sort of cuckold fantasy for the guy to be bigger, but it was super hot and he was really hard for her. She was moaning softly and spreading her legs wide for me to eat her.

God, she was beautiful sucking that cock...her pussy tasted better than it ever had. And I loved being on my knees looking up at her sucking him. Soon, I couldn't resist...she got on all fours to invite me and to suck him better; I had to fuck her. I had to give her that second cock inside her at once....we had talked about it so many times. I slipped my cock into her drenched and spread pussy. I knew I wouldn't last long, but I couldn't resist.
She was moaning and enjoying that fucking as much as any I could remember. Unfortunately, my cum built up and I knew I couldn't hold back. So I exploded inside my girl as she enjoyed another man's cock in her mouth.

Unfortunately, things began to wind down there...we were constrained for time and he had to get going. I imagine we’d had more energy and would have taken it further if we hadn’t drunk so much. LOL. But this was an important first step for us and it was just a couple of months ago. We followed this experience with some amazing trips to a great swingers club...where we've been with a couple of couples. I'll write more about those experiences next time. She is really opening up and enjoying herself. Off to a great start and ready for so much more. But to this point, she still hasn't been fucked by another guy....that is soon to come though!

So, I would love to hear thoughts and comments on these first experiences and how great it went...I'm so excited for more. It is great to share these fantasies with like-minded people. It’s been quite a discovery for us.

I'll definitely share more and maybe some pictures as well.

Bye for now.