My lady knows I'm bi and crave cock sometimes...hell, she is into me being with guys at least as much as I am! And she likes to tease me about how much I want cock. So our talking soon progressed to anal play with toys and such. I soon had to admit that I wanted her to fuck me with a strap on.
We are at a point in our relationship where she likes to control my every orgasm. Orgasm denial is a big thing for us. She gets any and all orgasms she wants, and I usually wait a week or more between orgasms. She has grown to enjoy this position of power more and more. She likes to torture and tease me and has become a master of it. One problem has been that she prefers to cum on my cock, but I just don't have the control to fuck her much without cumming.
She is such an amazing lover that she doesn't even let that stand in the way, she enjoys teasing and humiliating me when I cum too fast. She likes to make me count the strokes until I have to stop...or count the number of times she pumps me with her hand before I can't stand it anymore. Typically she quickly works me down from over 100 to 6 or 7 strokes before I have to make it stop. A few times we have screwed it up and she goes one stroke too far...resulting in my ruined orgasm. She won't pump me to completion, but the cum sort of oozes out and I don't really have the relief of an orgasm. Some of you cuckolds or subs will know what an intense turn-on that kind of teasing is.
As a good sub, I am always trying to give her what she wants...good hard fucking without my cumming too fast. So I read about these extensions that go over your cock and are thick enough that the man doesn't cum but the woman gets a good fucking. I shopped and found a really nice one...very expensive and realistic, premium silicone...and quite big too. It took a little practice, but now she cums every time I fuck her with this extension and I usually don't cum anymore. You can see from the picture below what she likes about the extension.
As you can see, the extension basically doubles the size of my cock. And it's nice and thick too. A tip to you ladies out there who sometimes complain that dildos can be too cold...these expensive silicone extensions quickly assume body temperature. She loves that. The extension has been a wonderful addition to our sex life...it is pretty thick so I usually don't cum (though sometimes I have).
Perhaps the best part for me is that she chooses when she fucks the extension or when I just give her oral to get her off. We have found a new lover for her, so hopefully you'll read more about him soon. He is bi and loves to be sucked by man and woman...so we'll have a blast with that. And he's already proven to have much better control than I do during sex. We are seeing him again this weekend.
I am really enjoying how our relationship has become female led...she seeks out and gets the pleasures that she needs and that in turn takes me to new heights of arousal. I expect to give her the ultimate control soon...she will be fucking me with a strap-on dildo really soon. Stay tuned.
Feel free to send me questions or emails...would be wonderful to get to know more couples who are into this part of the lifestyle.
