She's Gaining Control and I Love It

As I've written, we are new to Fem Dom...so we explore and test limits and find more and more pleasure. She's enjoyed the cock extension more times now than I can count.  When we use it, we have the closeness of my fucking her, but she comes on that big cock without fail.  I just can't last long enough to make her cum that way and I certainly don't fill her up like it does.

She is still an incredibly generous and giving lover...more so than ever.   So it's not as though all our sex is focused on her dominating me in some way.  Hell, much of our sex isn't even kinky.  However, we do play a lot and highlight the memories, the anticipation, and the new passions that our discoveries have created.

Another area that we probably never thought we would enjoy was ruined orgasms.  For years I've enjoyed being teased and denied the release of an orgasm, but she always gave in when we took it too far.  So many times she smiled or laughed gently when I lost control and pumped my cum into her or exploded in her mouth or her hand.  So, she wasn't sure she would even be able to just sit back and watch as cum pumped or oozed out of my cock.

I had read a lot about ruined orgasms and seen many videos showing how hot it could be, but I just didn't think it would be that different from an orgasm fulfilled.  Well, she's now done it to me three times...three ruined orgasms.  And I love the experience and want a lot more.  Each time it has happened after she took me to the edge a dozen or more times.  She laughs, taunts me, teases, and just keeps pushing me toward that point of no return.  Two nights ago she gave me the most amazing ruined orgasm I could imagine...after taking me to the brink so many times and encouraging me to suck and squeeze and worship her amazing tits...she gave me one of the hottest experiences we've ever shared.

I begged her to stop pumping me but she kept at it...laughing gently...then just as I got to the brink she stopped.  The cum just didn't ooze out...it erupted and exploded.  It was a huge load, to be expected I guess since she'd denied me for over a week.  She commented about my big load as it pumped out.  Amazingly, I had drained myself, but I got very little pleasure out of it.  There was cum everywhere, which she immediately started feeding to me.  I could tell it was a different sort of orgasm because I hungrily swallowed my own cum...she noticed and kept talking to me and telling me what a slut I was!

I suppose it's all part of dominating and denying me.  We enjoy adding to the fantasy and the possibilities and I suppose longer term chastity is something we both want.  The more I read about it and learn about other people's experiences, the more I know that longer term chastity will require draining my balls and prostate every so often.  The ruined orgasm was so tantalizing to me...to think of waiting two weeks or even three, only to have my cum drained while she giggles and teases me.  God, it's incredible how much I love putting her in charge!  It's a love made deeper and stronger.

She's Calling the Shots

The last four times we've had sex, she has chosen to fuck me with the extension instead of my naked cock.  Last night was the latest, and every time is simply incredible.  Like many of you, there is something about soft humiliation that makes me crazy.  She feels my cock throb or pulse every time she teases or humiliates me a little, so I don't see her slowing down anytime soon.  She's not really a size queen...at least it hasn't been mostly about cock size with her.  But this big cock extension really does it for her.  The main reason she is asking me to use the extension is control...I have been cumming so quick that she just doesn't get a good fucking.  

Last weekend I really let her down and since then, she's insisted on my using the extension.  She was so horny and so sexy sitting on my couch and telling me to lick her pussy.  I dove in, feeling thankful as I usually do for the opportunity to lick her.  I was really working her pussy with tongue, lips, and fingers.  Her clit is amazingly sensitive and sometimes she likes to fuck my face really hard.  I was in heaven...working more and more fingers.  One of the reasons I like the opportunity to lick her and finger her aggressively is that I can get her pussy stretched out a bit.  That usually helps me last longer if I get to fuck her.  You guys who have control problems should try that.

But anyway, she was being an incredibly hot slut on this night. I had four fingers deep into her pussy and she was just flooding her pussy with lubrication.  I was nervous when she had me bring my cock closer to her face.  She has this expert touch with my cock...pumping me close to cumming at will and making me beg her to stop.  She licked me and sucked me as well.  I was way more on edge than I should have been if I was going to fuck her well.  But she got up on all fours and told me to fuck her and that I better not cum.  She made me promise I could control it, at least for a little while. I got into position, even having butterflies.  But her pussy was just perfect and my cock slipped in much easier than I expected.  

Two strokes.  Less than 5 seconds.  I stopped and begged her to stop moving too...but it had started. She could feel it...the pulses...there was no hope to hold it back.  I banged it into her as my cum oozed out.  She was cussing and complaining even as I drove it into her to finish.  I'll never forget a couple of things she said "What the fuck was that?" and later she said "Now, I'll have to go to bed completely unsatisfied.".  She told me how I hadn't even gotten started..."two strokes"..."i told you not to cum".  Then she told me to "get down there and clean it up".  God, I can't recall ever being so turned on AFTER I came.  I really went after her pussy and my cum...she fucked my face and told me to get every fucking drop.  Even though I was enjoying my cum I really did feel bad.  Her pussy was so spread open and in need of fucking.

The next morning she awoke horny but didn't even touch my cock.  She turned over and rubbed her ass against me, telling me to slip it in before I got too close to cumming.  I did...but i was careful.  After a few strokes I had to slow down again, she warned me not to cum.  And then when I had to slow down, she told me to get the extension because she didn't trust me.  I carefully slipped the extension over my aching cock and lubed it up good.  It's quite large and I don't want to hurt her.  I drove it in without feeling a thing while she moaned loudly and fucked back against it.  

This was a woman who was not going to go without being satisfied again!  I watched with amazement as the entire cock extension sunk into my lady's pussy.  She was fucking me back so hard that I could feel it in my head...even getting close to cumming once.  She was very vocal in her praise for that big cock...telling me how I could never last this long without the extension.  She came on that big cock and fucked me back hard.  I don't usually get to fuck her much after she cums...I usually cum at the same time and lose my hard on immediately.  She loved the extra fucking that I gave her with the extension.

It's becoming clear she loves this cock extension more than she lets on.  I think it really surprises her, but twice since then she's cum on the extension.  One time she got me close 8 or 10 times with her hand...giggling and teasing the whole time. She often makes me count strokes with her hand until I make her stop...once it's down to 2 or 3 strokes she knows she has all the power and she makes sure that I know that no orgasms will be permitted unless I ask permission!

When I'm like that, she doesn't even bother with fucking my naked cock at all..straight to the extension.  She has found that she can even use her clit massager when I'm using the extension.  When my cock is naked, I can't let her do that or I'll cum immediately.  Every time I've fucked her with the extension she has cum....whereas with my cock, it's probably less than half the time.

Last night was kind of a romantic mood for our sex.  We needed to be close and intimate.  But she soon realized that she needed a lot of oral too.  So once I got my tongue inside her, she began to get sluttier and sluttier...she got me close with her hand a few times.  Giggling and enjoying the effect it has on me.    Knowing my cock wouldn't be much good to her like that..she let me fuck her for a minute or two.  She kept telling me not to cum but soon realized that was futile...."I don't trust you.  Go get the extension" she said.  I slipped it on and came back to see her ass up on a pillow to give me a good angle.  I rubbed the huge head up and down her wet slit...teasing that clit a lot.  Then it slipped in, just as easy and natural as if it was mine.  She just moans softly as it goes impossibly deep.  I get butterflies again when she says again that she can't believe how good it feels, how much it feels like fucking me...except with a huge cock of course.  She came quickly as I was really figuring out how to fuck her with this huge extension.  I gave her long hard strokes that I didn't think she could handle...she handled them and loved them.  She came and I kept fucking, like I hadn't done for years.  She was thankful and loving every stroke.  

When I finally stopped and pulled out, I licked that cock extension to taste her cum.  She smiled and watched me clean it up.  She loves that.  I slipped my naked cock in her stretched out pussy for a few strokes...had to stop a lot and she laughed and told me to stop, that I couldn't be trusted. "That's enough", she said.  I love that toy...maybe I'm jealous of it too...but it has sure made us both happy.  She decides when I cum and my desire just builds and builds...and I can't tell you how amazing it is to know my woman is in control and is more than I can ever handle!!